I received a request to write about “Jealousy” 😊
Among all emotions, jealousy is, how do I put it, very distinct, persistent and very unpleasant😅 People become jealous when they think other people are better than them. I don’t think this happens when other people are worse than you. I do not have many experiences of being jealous or receiving jealousy. I cannot remember.
However, I heard such a story. My mother’s acquaintance said, “Your daughters get along very well, don't they? My daughters are competing with each other, and they are jealous and don’t get along with each other.” When I heard this I was very shocked, “Really? Jealousy among sisters and brothers?” But it seems that this is very common. I wonder why don’t they accept good about their siblings? What’s the point of competing with each other? I think there are people who are jealous of other people due to how good they believe are that family’s relationships.
So what do you do when you are on the receiving side of jealousy from someone? For example, someone is jealous of you. You know it and you feel very unpleasant for a long time. If your unpleasant feeling stays in you for a long time, you are connecting with the vibration(energy) of his/her jealousy. If you do not connect, jealousy does not stay with you. If you are having a hard and difficult time in the “jealousy whirlpool “, try the following.
As I wrote in “Story of Live As Is”, accept that person’s jealousy as is. Just like “She/he is jealous of me”, nothing more. Don’t feel discomfort or that you have to do something about it. If you are troubled by this and feeling badly, you are not accepting “as is”. If you become one who can repel the energy of jealousy, this becomes not a big deal. Your consciousness is very important here. The “ordinary” way of saying “ignore” it. If you cannot do this, energy of jealousy stays for a long time and you will be affected by this. It is important not to connect with what you don’t need.
People who have jealousy, let’s eliminate the consciousness of “I am the best”. It does not matter if you are 2nd, 3rd of 100th. People who are 1st , their soul is not 1st. Watch your emotion of jealousy carefully, and say this is unnecessary. Do not ignore your emotion of jealousy, accept that you have such emotion and say this is not necessary. People who have much jealousy need a long time to get rid of it but try to work on it with patience.